personal fulfillment

Redefining Success: What Are You Really Working Toward?

Success. It’s something we chase for years, even decades. But do we even know what we’re really chasing? When’s the last time you stopped to consider what success means to you? A definition of success was handed to many of us early: work hard, climb the ladder, earn more, collect the titles, stay busy. There’s nothing inherently wrong with this type of ambition or the external badges we wear designating our achievements. The problem creeps up when those things become our default definition of success… and we forget to ask: at what cost? The Invisible Trade-Offs When I talk with Read more.

Take the Driver’s Seat: 4 Ways to Break Free from the “I Should” Trap

Every time I pass a car in a parking lot and see a dog sitting in the driver’s seat, it makes me smile. Sometimes said dog seems impatient or unnerved. They bark, jump, try to stick their head out of the crack in the window. Other times, said dog is calm, maybe even content. They sit straight up, look ahead, and almost seem to be smiling. I can’t help but think that dog is enjoying being in the driver’s seat (instead of in the back seat) for once! The last time I saw a dog in a car, it occurred Read more.

The Power of Compassionate Candor: Unlock Growth with Honest Feedback

For a lot of us, the idea of receiving feedback sparks fear or defensiveness. It might feel like a floodlight on your flaws or a magnifying glass over your mistakes. But what if you shifted your perspective? What if you embraced feedback as a compass to guide your growth and fulfillment? Compassionate candor is the key. When sought out and delivered with care, candid feedback becomes less about criticism and more about empowerment. Whether you’re seeking out new job opportunities or looking for greater fulfillment in your current role, collecting feedback allows you to see yourself more clearly, challenge your Read more.